Dr. Seth Meyers, Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Seth Meyers, Clinical Psychologist

Saturday, December 3, 2011

How NOT to Kiss!

In the book, The Art of Kissing, published by William Cane, kissing dos and don'ts are revealed. The number one mistake men and women make in kissing? Being too aggressive with the tongue. Slow down, people, and settle in for a relaxed kiss, rather than trying to clean out a gutter with a rubber hose.

A kiss is how sexual play usually begins, so it's important that you send the message to the one you're kissing that you're not working, but actually enjoying yourself! Most importantly, kissing too aggressively can be a sign of anxiety, and you don't want to come across as anxious or nervous in such a romantic moment.

Finally, once you've been dating someone for a few weeks, compliment the way they kiss and ask how they like the way you do it. Sometimes people need to be invited to do talk about something that can be a little awkward.

PLUS: Check out Dr. Seth's book, Dr. Seth's Love Prescription, today about how to stop repeating the same negative patterns in your romantic relationships. (Click the book cover to the right to buy a copy today!)

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